Why Blog? And What is Heart Redeeming?

I've always liked writing and have been able to express my feelings in writing. Blogging has two purposes for me: it gets all the thoughts out of my head and it's a reminder that maybe someone else will benefit from what I'm processing. There's so many people hurting inside but pretending like everything is OK. I always wished I could hide my feelings, but I can't. God is working on a "heart redeeming" process in me right now. I've been in a desert season for 10 years....a marriage that had such a painful last few years, divorce, grief, single parenting, being single in general, getting back into dating and trying to do it completely God's way, but facing betrayal again....honestly I hate the desert and I want to be in the Promised Land. I wish I had all the answers and a happy ending to report (I'm anxious to report that eventually), but for now, I'll get these thoughts out as I walk through the desert.

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